It’s the “melody,” stupid!
I've often found myself in conversations with people who seemed disengaged. While they hear my words, they often miss the underlying melodies that convey my full message. This disconnect can be frustrating, especially after sharing something personal, only to realize they’ve completely missed the point. Many focus solely on the words, overlooking the tones and melodies that carry the essence of what I’m trying to communicate. I frequently feel disappointed after expressing my thoughts and emotions, realizing that my message doesn’t always resonate. I don’t believe it’s solely the listener’s fault; perhaps I need to find a more concise way to share my stories. Maybe my words come across as dissonant and my prose too lengthy, causing people to tune out for good reason. I recognize that this can sometimes stem from my own style of speaking. However, what concerns me most is that, in a world where individuality reigns supreme, we’ve learned to prioritize our own stories over listening ...